20180621

20180621 Je Ja and Ri had a discussion slash blow out last night. Ma had confronted Bo when Bo came over a few weeks ago and was spouting lies. He was down the hall had Ri cornered in the bedroom and was saying that Ma was a liar about things that have been said Etc that she was misquoting El and that El and never said that she believed my inappropriate things or molested, if molested was the right word, that she used. He was saying that she El never told Ma that. Su had confronted Bo few weeks prior and then Ma had confronted Bo as well. With Ma out of town Je felt that if Bo came over she would have to defend herself so she was telling Ri what she would do so that she and he were mentally prepared for it. And Ri felt that Je
was making something out of nothing. That nothing had happened yet and she shouldn't be telling him, her father, what to do. but she was only saying that she would not let Bo corner him down the hall that if you wanted to talk he would have to talk out in the living room. It went back and forth it was very frustrating. Listening to them argue is like listening to two brick walls converse with each other. When Ri has an opinion no evidence to the contrary sways his opinion. He's very stubborn and set in his ways. And his thinking. It is partially who the information is coming from. He doesn't realize it but he's very biased according to where he's getting his information, some people when he receives information from them he is skeptical and always skeptical when it comes from that person. Other people he believes straight out.