20141030

I was about to send this message when it dawned on me that it might come back to clobber me on the head. Like the opening up of conversation and dialog would be turned to be my problem fault etc. Idk where this came from but it made me hesitate in sending it. "it is difficult if I have a different opinion than you, to feel like you can agree to disagree when we talk. " In response to her questioning me pulling away, this would then confirm that I'm pulling away? When in reality I'm not but if I send this she will think ok so he is pulling away and here he's saying why. The real issue is You expect me to think and feel the same as you do, and when I don't, it causes tension. 20141030 4pm